For married and engaged couples

Many couples – even those married for decades – want to learn to pray better together. This book is designed to help you pray the Rosary together to obtain all of the sacramental grace that God has in store for your marriage.

With each decade, you will invite the Holy Spirit to enter your marriage and you will petition God to help you continuously shape your marriage into an icon of His love in the world.

A look inside

In this entire world there is not a more complete, more perfect image of God, Unity, and Community than marriage and family.

St. John Paul II

What people are saying

“From young children to seasoned Marian devotees, every Catholic needs help to pray the Rosary better, especially to enter more deeply into the mysteries of Christ’s life so that we may live them more fruitfully. The Rosary is a prayer for and of the family, and in Icon of Love, Dan and Debbie Staresinic share the fruits of their marital contemplation in a way that will nourish the meditation of every domestic Church.”

“While praying and meditating together on the meaning of marriage, on the importance of Mary’s role in your marriage, and on the love of Christ manifested through your marriage you will be inviting the Holy Spirit into your lives and beseeching God to move on earth through your love for each other. The ending meditation for each decade reads ‘Lord make our marriage an icon of Your love.’”

“The Icon of Love Rosary guide is a beautiful way not only to enter into the mysteries of the Rosary as a couple, but to bring the grace of those mysteries into the heart of one’s marriage. It was a sweet surprise to discover how down to earth these prayers can be, enhanced by the meditations in this little book. Mystery by mystery, Icon of Love touches every aspect of life and provides a simple, effective way to invite the Holy Spirit daily into one’s marriage. I urge all married couples to pray with it together.”

Icon of Love is a beautiful way for married and engaged couples to discover or rediscover the life-giving power of the Rosary, presented with stunning Catholic icons from several iconographers. The book doesn’t assume the reader’s level of understanding when it comes to icons or the Rosary, as it explains both to the reader and connects them to the Sacrament of Matrimony. The meditations not only help the reader reflect on each mystery of the life of Christ, but also encourage couples to grow in their nuptial gift through prayers for divine assistance for their marriage. I will utilize this treasure in my own marriage and as a resource for the couples I serve through counseling and the classes I teach.”

“Several years ago, Saint John Paul II’s Theology of the Body opened my eyes to the Sacrament of Matrimony as an icon of Christ’s love for His Bride, the Church. I came to understand that only in the domain of Christ’s love for us would the love of husband and wife fully flower. We are like cut flowers that need to be immersed in the love of Christ. I believe that Icon of Love: The Rosary for You & Your Spouse is a gift that our Blessed Mother is passing down to all of her cut flowers, so that our marriages are filled and have life and have it abundantly. Thank you, Debbie and Dan!”

The whole earth is a living icon of the face of God.

St. John Damascene

Method

Together with each decade you will…

  • focus on a unique virtue to sanctify your marriage
  • recite short meditations between each Hail Mary to create an intricately shared prayer experience
  • intentionally invite the Holy Spirit to enter your marriage
  • ask God to help you to continuously shape your marriage into an icon of His love in the world

Concerning marriage there is no other human reality that corresponds more, humanly speaking, to the divine mystery (of God’s love).

St. John Paul II

Features

  • Foreword by Dr. Christopher West
  • Brief essay on Christian Iconography
  • Brief essay on Marriage as a Sacrament
  • A guide for how to Pray the Rosary together
  • Two pages per mystery that include
    • a specific virtue to pray for in your marriage
    • beautiful icons that illuminate the meaning of the mystery
    • a scriptural quote that coincides with the mystery and the virtue
    • short meditations that spur reflection and deeper engagement in the prayer
  • Endnotes with references, comments, and options for deeper study.

Marriage is the icon of God’s love.

Pope Francis

Fruits

  • supports and encourages a habit of praying together as a couple
  • strengthens the bond between husband and wife
  • brings the grace of the Rosary into your marriage
  • inspires greater love for Jesus and Mary
  • cultivates awareness and gratitude for the sacrament of marriage
    • a specific virtue to pray for in your marriage
    • beautiful icons that illuminate the meaning of the mystery
    • a scriptural quote that coincides with the mystery and the virtue
    • short meditations that spur reflection and deeper engagement in the prayer
  • reminds spouses of their responsibility to imitate Christ’s sacrificial love
  • empowers couples to be compelling witnesses for God’s plan for marriage
  • helps couples and families fulfill their call to sainthood

If families give Our Lady fifteen minutes a day by reciting the Rosary, I assure them that their homes will become, by God’s grace, peaceful places.

Father Patrick Peyton

About the cover

The cover art brings together three concepts that are at the core of this book: the Rosary, the union of husband and wife, and the Christ-like love that brings love and life to marriage.

The central design element on the cover (pictured above) represents the wedding rings of the husband and wife and symbolizes their sacramental union. But the overlap also creates a new shape. This shape, known as a mandorla, has a longstanding place in Christian sacred art.

Mandorla is the Italian word for almond, which the shape resembles. In Christian tradition, it has often been used to signify Christ. Christ is fully God and fully man, so if we imagine the overlapping of the divine and earthly realms (circles), we will find Christ in that space.

Thus, the heart in the center of the mandorla represents the love of Christ and, simultaneously, the love that springs forth from marriage when it is Christ-centered.

About the art

There are 20 beautiful icons reproduced in the book, illuminating each mystery of the Rosary. The use of icons is fitting, given the book’s title, but in a larger sense the icons prove the principle of the book: that the visible can convey the invisible; that your marriage can (and should!) visibly convey God’s love in the world.

About the authors

Dan and Debbie Staresinic have been married for more than three decades and are blessed with four children and eight grandchildren. Dan brings a background in organizational leadership and Debbie a deep formation in Theology of the Body and Marian devotion. They have written this book to express their gratitude to God for their marriage and to help others experience the power of the Rosary, the beauty of sacramental marriage, and the special grace that is available to married couples when they pray together. This book follows three earlier works by Debbie: Theology of the Body Rosary MeditationsOn a Mission to Love, and En misión de amor.

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